the difference between
LETTING SOMEONE COME
into your home + going
into someone’s home.
SEE,
this is why
we should be talking
about INVITATION
rather than consent.
THERE ARE THE PEOPLE
who wait for an invitation.
THERE ARE THE PEOPLE
who ask for an invitation.
THERE ARE THE PEOPLE
who invite themselves
in + make you feel like
you’ve invited them.
THERE ARE THE PEOPLE
who feel an astonishing
level of entitlement to enter
(+ do so on their terms).
PERSONALLY,
I’m guilty of
NOT SLAMMING THE DOOR
in someone’s face,
screaming
GO FUCK YOURSELF
from the top of my lungs,
when I should have.
.
music: Chaleur humaine
by Christine and the Queens
.